Saturday, December 04, 2004
[[food for thought]]
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have...
Juz dat not evryone thks this way...they only see what they want to see...in the end, they miss out all the things that mean the most and are the most real and stays true even in the hardest and toughest of times...isnt dat what love is? thru thick and thin..it doesnt mean anythg if one showers u wif all the care, juz the way u want it... it doesnt mean anythg if he doesnt hold his ground thru times of hardship..a relationship isnt juz abt the honeymoon period...it's how long it lasts..how u made it last dat long...ppl tend to only see the sweet thgs abt luv during the good times...they forget dat love also means sacrifice, tolerence, perseverance and sticking together thru the hard times... there's so much more to love than i dare say i noe....but i'm still learning...it's nv wrong not to know evrythg...but it is the biggest mistake to think dat u do know everythg..and worse still, reject the gd advice and experinces shared....love doesnt juz involve one person...juz because ur feelings seem to hv disappeared doesnt mean dat his has too...hv u taken him into consideration? he tot of how u wld feel if he were to end it all juz bcos he didnt hv any more feelings...he felt a sense of responsibility for ur feelings towards him so he persisted and sought back the feelings he once had...however when he found them, it was ur turn to lose ur feelings..however this time, its different...he tot u wld hv done the same..but no, u left it as it is...its ok, he offered to find them back on ur behalf...but u already decided to leave for greener pastures for u always wanted it, thus forsaking him...n u forget dat even a day came when e pastures r gone, ultimately he wld be the only one standing there...
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9:20 AM.